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Old 01-21-2011, 12:03 AM
lovinhimloviner lovinhimloviner is offline
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You have just skated the very edge of this life and are already breaking the rules. If my husband cheated on me I would put an end to this life style until I was 100% sure I could trust him. If there is no trust then you can't succeed in this lifestyle, or any real healthy marriage. I would say it is something YOU have to work on not so much getting her past it. You are justifying cheating on her with the fact that you are going to be able to do it. You should see if your wife would like to get on her. There is so many threads on her that could give you insight as to why trust and boundaries are so important. I would give her a long time to get over this. It will not happen over night.
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