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Old 01-20-2011, 07:12 PM
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Wow that is very firm laylah. I get that as I have thought that before too. I identified as a lesbian for 10 years and swore! Up and down! That no cock would enter me ever again. Ha! Am I ever eating my words. It held true at the time, but now I realize that life is fluid and so I just go with it. I make firm decisions in the moment as I do with my boundaries in my relationships. It makes me be able to trust and have integrity but I also keep in mind that things change as I learn and grow. I leave room for that more now. Its great you have some boundaries; I only mention this as a consideration that they not become hard and fast rules for the rest of your life. Just a thought.
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