Feel free to email me a "question" email for her-and I'll forward it to her to respond to.
Most of all, she doesn't care. She's always known her whole life that I believe STRONGLY in people having a right to live their life anyway they want.
My ex-girlfriend had a motto she said all of the time (when Spicy was little) "if two people share love, who cares about the details as long as it's love, it's a good thing".