Originally Posted by redpepper
I am not asking him to change either, but I fear that I will have to leave him one day or force change.
Letting go of the fear that I will disapeear entirely or will wither and die might help in this Lilo. All of us have to be healthy and all of us have already survived a tonne of life experiences. Our hearts will persevere and our connection will remain no matter what the future holds. I have complete faith in our life commitment to support each other in the whatever way allows us to be free and healthy as family