Originally Posted by sage
From what I observed Mono has come to terms with your closed polyamory tribe (for want of a better label) but not the concept that for you polyamory means freedom of the heart to be continuously open. Is that right?
I fully understand Redpepper's concepts. I just wouldn't be healthy in that situation with the level of integration and commitment I have. Perhaps if I wasn't so close it would be ok but that would mean stepping back from my level of commitment and family integration. Essentially it might work if my overall involvement were similar to a lot of other secondaries with less integrated lives. But we don't want that so we move forward and see what the future has in store for us
Who knows what can happen