Originally Posted by Lobster
I'm not sure how or what the protocol would be on talking to a couple of you individually you seem to have been in a very similar situation to what I am going through and would love some more targeted advice.
You can send a PM to someone by clicking "User CP" in the top right corner of this page. Then click the "Send new message" link under "Private Messages" on the lefthand side of your User Control Panel.
Alternately, I believe you can also click someone's name from their post and choose "Send Private Message." I can't tell on this one at the moment, as I'm on my phone.