Originally Posted by oriens
Oh it's definitely me that feels guilty for having what he doesn't.
Understood....people usually don't get too guilty about having metamours (The lover's other lover).
So I could see that you might be feeling guilty about having a paramour (Lover) while he has yet to find one.
It's also not uncommon for guys to take a long time to find a lover...especially if they're already involved. It's a rare woman indeed who will even stick around long enough to entertain the notion.
Patience, patience, and more patience.