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Old 01-19-2011, 12:53 AM
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Originally Posted by oriens View Post
Oh it's definitely me that feels guilty for having what he doesn't.
Understood....people usually don't get too guilty about having metamours (The lover's other lover).
So I could see that you might be feeling guilty about having a paramour (Lover) while he has yet to find one.

It's also not uncommon for guys to take a long time to find a lover...especially if they're already involved. It's a rare woman indeed who will even stick around long enough to entertain the notion.

Patience, patience, and more patience.
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