I couldn't help but think of the old playground song K-I-S-S-I-N-G while reading this thread. It makes me wonder if silly old songs like this that we learn as children are not some sort of "conditioning" taught to us. Clearly the song is implied for Mono relationships, but what kinda stigma does it hold for people as we get older by hearing such things as children?
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girls who are single mothers out of wedlock, clearly got the order wrong.
if its not a girl and a boy sitting in that tree they have it wrong too.
so if there is more than one person in the tree, wouldn't the branches break?
I think that personally I believe that there is no right or wrong order of things. Just as long as situations are being done responsibly. And that could vary relationship to relationship.
I also think that I dislike kids songs lol. Brainwashing sucks.