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Old 01-19-2011, 12:22 AM
eklctc eklctc is offline
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It seems that you are working through things just fine, RP. I agree with much of what you, Mono, and Derby have said- though there are basic guidelines to how we do this thing, and so many people want to play the poly role but really have the slightest idea, you guys are speaking it and doing it successfully and it can look and work however you want it to with transparency and communication; live in the present and drop the 'what ifs' (they are to be pondered but not obsessed about); do ponder the advantages/disadvantages of talking to PN about the sex thing (if you are seeking to change something, speak up. If not, let it be). I'm also glad you are in a better place with the Leo situation. Go ahead and be his trophy for a bit. *hugs*
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