Thank you all for these great replies. They have really given me something to think about.
Right now, I think I need to be a bit braver, maybe post in the blog thread, and not be so timid about it all. I am just so used to "not sharing" such information.... LOL.
There is so much more to the whole story that is relevant, I think that might be the best way to go? In order to explain myself? Though I am extremely nervous about it. >_<
Its not easy being new. hahahaha