I figured this belonged in chit chat? So I live in NYC and N keeps saying we should go to the upcoming Poly pride weekend. But I'm going to be 8 months pregnant! I don't mind the being poly and having kids thing, but being poly while carrying a baby and not currently in a poly relationship? He says maybe I'll meet a terrific woman. I say even if I do she'll rub my belly and I'll forever be seen in the light of "mommy" and not "woman". I don't know. It seems a weird first impression even though I'm not looking for relationships. Any thoughts? Am I just silly?
I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not.