everyone has had really good stuff to say. Everything you are saying seems pretty normal to me... its all such a transition. Keep communicating and being radically honest. It does get easier and more normalized. It sounds like you have some boundaries to adjust and discuss. No one should ever have to compromise for long, it just gets way too uncomfortable. sometimes to the point where resentment takes over and hatred. If you feel you are getting to that place, then time for more honesty. Even if you can't really determine what it is that is going on for you...
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