Triad or Vee we are open to both. Depends on the situation. Making choices is not on a personal level as it is on a common sense, avoid drama level. He is not very good at either.
OMG Exactly. Situations are so very similar! Especially the patience part. You would be very good for him to talk to. (Though He has been incredibly patient with me. I'm very lucky. I definitely drug my heels on this whole concept at first several years ago!) I plan to get him involved with this forum, but he is mourning a recent relationship right now. He will probably be glued to the PS3 for a few weeks.
I miss him already.
Speaking of similar, cool to see some one else is a sci-fi spaz like me. lol.
I am in good company here.