My wife and I have not started our poly life yet. But what we want is a another wife.. in a Triad NOT a V. This is what we think would be ideal for us if we can find the right person. I would want them to love our children and have input on raising them as much as us. There are so many different paths in the Poly community and it varies on what you want out of it. I love the idea of a big blended family. If they have children then great! Thats more to love and more siblings for our current children! I know this isnt for everyone but its our dream.
Life is all about the love...