all the best
You are a brave woman, RP. I don't know if the decision to discuss came about as a necessary explanation or a conscious choice, but from what I know of you, it was the latter.
It's gotta hurt to be judged by people you love when you make the bold move to be unapologetic and honest out of love for yourself and them.
I'm proud of you, as I'm sure your men and others in your life are. You did good. Now just give it time.
Wishing you all the best.
"Rocks will open and make a way for the lover."
~Hazrat Inayat Khan
I love Catfish and Charlie.