QUOTE: "My frustration comes into how every single conversation we have has to come back to the relationship between myself and the boyfriend. He's not willing to let it go for even a day so that we can talk about just us. Nothing and I mean nothing I say or do can distract him from this topic and it's painful." [/QUOTE]
We talk about poly almost all the time. It does get exhausting! It's just that it's new and we are both still pretty flipped out.
Sometimes I have to say, "Let's just be in the PRESENT. In this moment, we are here together and I love you."
Also I've never been big on movies, but we've been escaping together watching movies lately! Temporary reprieve, anyway.
Hang in there!
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