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Old 01-15-2011, 11:51 PM
darkmirror darkmirror is offline
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: North Carolina
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Default Need to learn about Polyamory

By way of introducing myself to the board, I am a male in a 30 year marriage. My wife and I have been struggling to reignite the flame in our marariage for years. I can't honestly say that we are still in love with each other. With all of the problems we are having, it's difficult to say the L word. In the mean time, I have met a woman within the last few years who has talked to me about polyamory. She and I could very easily be lovers were it not for the fact that I am committed to my family. I never thought I would find myself in this position. It goes against everything that I have always been taught.

I am searching for answers and polyamory may provide me with some. The problem is that if I brought this to my wife, it would not be a polyamorous relationship because she would not accept it.

The idea of loving freely and openly with more than one person appeals to me very much. But I am so new to this. I hope that I can learn from those on this forum who truly are practicing polyamory and not just looking to hook up.

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