New & Scared
I'm a 41-year-old woman who is feeling like I'm missing something/someone in my life. I have a significant other. We've been together for 10 years and I love him dearly.
He cannot give me everything I need and want. I don't even think I know what I want. I sometimes feel like I'm suffocating - like I want to be set free. From what, I don't really know.
I would very much like to explore other people, other relationships, but my significant other would be heart broken if he knew I was posting this.
Would anyone agree that I've got to make the decision to...
1) accept my life as it is and get over my feelings that there is more out there, or
2) end my relationship with my significant other and start over, or
3) tell him about my feelings, which may result in the end of us?