Originally Posted by pokey
I thought Mono was the term everyone maybe used for the person who wasn't married in the relationship? !
Heehee..no "Mono" is the name I use because I am wired monogamously...in that I only Love and want Redpepper in a physically intimate way.
The person who isn't married but involved with a married couple doesn't need to be monogamous. Usually they are "commonly" referred to as secondaries.
They can be poly too.