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Old 01-14-2011, 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Derbylicious View Post
Rushing into becoming lovers before you know each other well is kind of a crap shoot as to whether it will last or not.
Yeah, but is lasting the goal, or is quality the goal?
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