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Old 01-14-2011, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
A relationship that starts out or remains mostly sexual isn't necessarily always temporary, short-lived, or shallow. Its dynamic simply meets a particular need.
I know that.

I had a lover for 4-6 years who was almost completely sexual. We got along well, but we were way way too busy in our individual lives for much more than that-and we had GREAT sexual chemistry.

At the same time, he wasn't part of my family.

I also had a beloved part of my family step backward into a role that was primarily sexual. Nothing about her was ever temporary, short-lived or shallow to me. Though the relationship ended, my love, adoration and respect for her did not, will not.
"Love As Thou Wilt"
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