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Old 01-14-2011, 09:28 PM
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I don't see that taking someone as a lover negates the ability to build a friendship.
It sure doesn't!

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I may be in the minority, but until a friendship has been formed, they shouldn't even be introduced to the family (ie. children) at all. In fact the introductions should start with the other adult family memebers and the decission of when it's time to make further introductions should be a mutal decission.
So glad I'm childfree and don't need to worry about such things. I only answer to myself!
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