I just want to say how much I appreciate James in this thread, and I thought others might want to as well.
James- thank you for all of the time you spend caring about us and our life situations. You are obviously a beautiful person, full of compassion, wisdom, tact and wit.
Damncatfish and I have really taken your words to heart at times, and are grateful for your perspective. Your posts are articulate and have helped us greatly in our relating to each other and to poly.
Do let us know when you finish your book. I'd love to read some of your writing on other topics as well- you are very talented.
I think of you as a trusted friend now, and always appreciate your take on things. Thanks again.