Thanks for the clarification Joyce... it does sound like J is supportive...
I know that for me, I would want to be having an honest conversation with the married partner of a woman I was considering to become a girlfriend. And if I saw the rollercoaster ride happening that seems to have been happening with the two of you, I would want to apologize to the other guy for the pain caused and offer any way of helping the situation that I can rather than just leaving it to the two of you to sort it out and then jumping right in when a green light is given.
That's just me anyway...
Maybe J is being more supportive than the perspective that the posts here have been giving, and a question I have for Robin is whether he feels like J is doing all he can to ensure that the two of you are OK...
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