Hi Robin and Joyce,
It sounds like a roller coaster ride for the two of you! I wish you the very best...
In reading your posts I haven't heard much about Joyce's boyfriend, but from what is present, I have to be honest and say that I'm disappointed in him. He is married, you are both married. If I was considering a married woman for myself as a girlfriend, I would want to go out of my way to make sure that her relationship with her husband is strong and that they are both comfortable with a possible new relationship entering into the dynamic.
Without knowing details, it does not seem like he has been doing very much to ensure that you are both in a good place to allow this relationship to continue. He has some responsibility in all this too...
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