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Old 01-12-2011, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Jodi View Post
if he can't even converse with others, how's he going to think on a deeper level about showing partners the "courtesy" of freedome of sexual expression.
That is very astute of you to see that corollary! His "windbag ways" are indeed a red flag.
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