Originally Posted by TL4everu2
Now to the "other part" of it all. This subject came up when my wife and I were dating another couple. I was ok with it, but my wife was like "You wouldn't get snipped with me after our second child, but you would for HER? WTF?". A reasonable question I think. But I didn't have a good answer.
Any help people? Because I know it's gonna come up again.
Because you want to feel safe and secure in your fluid bonded non monogamy...