hi. i can relate to your situation. i've been recently divorced. also, joined an on-line dating site...there are many men, but tbh, i'm content with my boyfriend, also my dear friend's husband. but, i've been wanting to have another male in my life.
the dating sites provide a good way to meet men, but it takes a lot of effort imo.
i hope you enjoy learning more about this lifestyle and best of luck in meeting people who are a good match for you.