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Old 01-10-2011, 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
...ask.
Best. Advice. Ever.

Communication is key, both of your needs and their's. You're adding an extra person into the mix, and RP is right, assuming that your husband are the same in a totally different context will lead to trouble. Simply assuming too much will lead to miscommunication and trouble...you need to communicate your needs to them and you need to be receptive of their needs when they tell you what they are, and you have to make sure they do, or ask them to.
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