Originally Posted by nto
So any advice? I'll take advice on how to deal with my jealousy, my insecurity, the guilt I have over her feeling so bad, her feeling so bad, or anything else you care to give advice on. I have no idea what to do, say, or how to fix myself or help her.
Read xeromag articles.
That's my "place to start" suggestion.
Buy (and read) the book "living happily ever after" & "the seven levels of intimacy".
Do whatever it takes to get you busy working on your insecurities and fears. Stay busy and keep at it.
Don't focus on his issues, that isn't something that you can fix. Focus on dealing with your issues.