I guess I didn't really expect some kind of magic cure, though that would have been nice. The funny thing is, I've been giving them both very similar advice, but not taking it myself, apparently. For many concerns that they've had, I've just told them to give it time, let things happen naturally. Time makes almost everything better. And it's true for me too; if I just give it time, this feeling will dissipate. So, I suppose that's what I have to do.