Originally Posted by XYZ123
You are an individual with just as many rights and emotions as the two of them. You have a right to know why the rules are in place, express your feelings on them, and ask for what you need. You all need to communicate together for this to work.
Hear, Hear, XYZ. I couldn't agree more.
And if any of the rules aren't working for you, LV, you have a right to discuss them. And renegotiate your agreements. And/or decide for yourself what you want to do about it.