And sometimes people who do stupid things are called "retarded". It doesn't mean they ARE retarded. But I'm sure true MR people don't appreciate stupidity being linked with retardation. Stupidity can be helped, retardation cannot. Indecisiveness and bitchiness can be helped, bipolar cannot.
Sorry. I don't have many big red DO NOT PUSH buttons. But this is one. And I'm not in any mood to have someone poking about by it right now. Unmedicated with pregnancy hormones raging through me and a needy child 24-7. I am on a tight leash....grrrrr
I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not.