I wish I had words of advice my friend but I understand your guilt. I've just learned to accept that other guys entering our dynamic will change what we have from my end. Because of this I sometimes dwell on the idea that what we have can't last forever in it's current form of expression. You can either take the plunge and see what is on the other side if she follows this path or learn to accept your own limitations. As a side note...the whole drinking/depression guilt trip thing this guy has going on does not sound healthy regardless..he needs help.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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Last edited by MonoVCPHG; 01-09-2011 at 05:43 PM.