that's tough. I would react the same way if everyone were seemingly ganging up on me. Is there any chance she can do some reading here? We are all in this together and really, most people have the same struggles starting out.. it's a matter of getting through it and coming out the other side... no one here has an invested interest in her seeing things differently, so perhaps it would be more of a reality check for her.
If she isn't comfortable posting she can PM. I am willing to be there if she needs an ear to bend. Sometimes someone to talk to really helps... and I do get where SHE is coming from. She is not alone on this journey, there are many people here who will understand and be confidential if she needs to speak freely but in private.
Anyone want to be friends on Facebook?
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