My gf has a slightly lower libido than me, but we have a good arrangement. She doesnt mind seeing me masturbating, and more often than not if she sees me doing it, she'll stop by and at least pinch a nipple or something like that, or just let me hug onto her when I get to the point of orgasm. I dont touch her breasts or genitals unless she indicates she has gotten turned on by being near me.
I love her.
I never had this kind of openness with my mono vanilla ex.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years