If you are in a triad then I would question if anyone is Mono.... wouldn't you be in a "V" if that is the case? So, are both of our men mono then... ? or Poly? Is your husband interested in others, or does he have another?
It's confusing your use of Mono to describe someone other than my Mono... hmmmm... is it possible to call him something else?
I hear you on the questions from the parents and the jealous they have around not spending time with us. I am facing that more and more these days... in fact it has come down to a family talk soon.... AHHHHHH! I feel as if I were 10 and about to get in trouble.
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