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Old 01-08-2011, 05:29 AM
eklctc eklctc is offline
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One thing that is constantly reiterated in guidelines of open relationships is to address the issue in your relationship prior to branching out because branching out is not going to solve the problem. If your goal is to continue with a loving, growing relationship, you guys must mutually agree to work on that which is already broken in your relationship. As you stated, letting it go builds resentment on your end. Dangling it over the relationship or holding onto it (which it will find outlets in other negative ways) will build resentment on his end. I wish you well in your journey.
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