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Old 01-08-2011, 05:24 AM
eklctc eklctc is offline
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It really bothers me when people don't understand that it is unhealthy to try to jump right into a friendship after their emotional/intimate relationship has ended. The best way to get over someone is to let them go completely, go through your healing process, and then come back to the middle. Many people don't allow others to do that though. View it as a necessary evil but it's almost like a cleansing. You can't start taking your elixirs and herbs yet continue to binge on grease, sugar, and alcohol and expect to be renewed at the end of that process. I hope your holidays ended up being not so blue. Your journey has just taken a slight detour but you will be back on your path in no time. *hugs*
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