Originally Posted by Ariakas
The intimate discretion is something that can be fixed I believe, regardless of their couplecentricness. This shouldn't be tied imo. Privacy in a relationship is important
This is what I was going to say too. It should be up to you who gets to share in your life and how much. I think you have every right to ask for what you share to be kept between the two of you. She doesn't have the right to know anything that you're not willing to share with her yourself. It also seems one sided that she gets all this blow by blow info about you and on the other hand doesn't want to open up to you at all.