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Old 01-07-2011, 12:09 AM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Location: Kansas City Metro
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I'll second that it sounds as if you're wanting to swing or simply have an open marriage. We have some folks here who also swing and do open--those aren't the focus of this site, though. You may find discussion more to your liking on a swinging site.

As for asking her about what you want to do, I'm generally a fan of simply asking for what you want. "I'm interested in X--what do you think about it?"
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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