Originally Posted by Carma
I really appreciate the idea that there can be 2 ways of discovering Polyamory -- falling in love with another person, or falling in love with Polyamory and then pursuing the lifestyle!
I think maybe there's a third, which is accepting the validity of both monogamy and polyamory, without being "sold" on one or the other. I wouldn't identify as polyamorous, though I am in a poly relationship and have dated more than one person at a time, honestly and openly, and adore my OSO's contribution to my life. I don't know what will happen for me in the future, but I'm not convinced it's about wiring. Maybe it's like being bi, only with numbers?