Originally Posted by maca
The boundry rules that I have asked to change are the very ones that LR has posted about as being unfair and limiting to her and GG. Ones that I made in order to protect myself from being hurt further after years of being cheated on and lied to. Those rules were made over a year ago.
I did say and do mean that even if things dont work out with R ( which is now on indeffinet hold) I was wrong in putting in those rules and that I would not take it back if it ended up not benefiting me.
I read through your other replies - and I was the one who offered too much as well. Regardless of whether the pressure was there - I felt it - which is why so much of her posts have resonated with me.
I know we're only hearing one side - and I'm glad you weighed in on this.