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Old 01-06-2011, 03:35 AM
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I have yet to fully decide if I am mono or poly. I often lean towards being poly but perhaps I seem more mono because it is so rare that I meet people that I connect with romantically. I am seeing a married poly man who is married to a (in my opinion) fairly mono woman. Like Mono said, it wasn't something I sought out per se but through a series of special circumstances the relationship was formed. And I can't say I'd be eager after this relationship finishes, to jump into poly things again. It's very challenging, there are so many variables. I have no intentions of leaving my current relationship any time soon but having as many restrictions as we have (because she is mono) is difficult. Primarily in the physical realm. Honestly, you fall in love with who you fall in love with and sometimes you accept a situation because you want to be with them. And it can definitely be worth it.
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