Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
I was the cheater. I was in love with both Maca (my husband) and GG (my current boyfriend).
But-the whole reason that I am here today sitting side by side with Maca is because he accepted that telling me to give up the other love of my life on account of the fact that I found polyamory through some HIGHLY FUCKED UP BEHAVIORS wasn't realistic or reasonable if he loved me.
I think this is interesting just from the perspective of the one who cheated. As much as the OP really should consider the requests of her husband, she should also consider her feelings towards her husband as well.
I don't think you can compare LovingR with Sourel's Husband as I think LovingR had way more respect for her husband in the end than Sourel's husband has for her. JMHO.