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Old 01-05-2011, 02:48 AM
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Originally Posted by RfromRMC View Post
...enjoy the NRE while it lasts.
Will do! You don't have to tell me twice on that one!

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Originally Posted by SNeacail View Post
It is overwhelming to all of a sudden realize that the reasons for some of our walls and distance from others is now gone and probably shouldn't have been there in the first place.
I agree. Since going poly, my wife and I have been able to talk about things we never would have before, such as the fact that I still have feelings for one of my old high school crushes (who is also one of my best friends). I never would have shared that before because: (1) it doesn't lessen how much I love my wife (very poly concept, huh?), (2) I didn't want my wife feeling hurt/jealous/self-conscious, and (3) I never would have acted on it, so instead I repressed it. It is wonderful that both of us can now discuss this kind of stuff without fear or jealousy... feels so much more open and intimate with each other. Plus, my wife was even saying how nice it would be if I could spark up my old love interest. LOL!

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Originally Posted by Magdlyn View Post
I'm sure honoring your wife's bisexual nature is really great for her, and your marriage.
Oh yes, that has been wonderful for her in many ways: feeling accepted for her sexuality, loved, then loved again, over and over, by both of her lovers. LOL It's been great to our marriage, and I'm also extremely happy for all the love she's receiving from both of us!

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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
Back in November, I was head-over-heels for someone and he occupied my thoughts most of the day. One day, while home alone, I ordered some food. When it arrived, I caught myself about to stroke the delivery boy's cheek when I took the bag from him. It just seemed like the natural thing to do (in a way, I wish it was!), but good thing I snapped out of it before that happened. Would've made ordering from that place again rather awkward!
My wife keeps accidentally saying "I love you!" to random people on the phone! Kind of embarrassing on business calls. LOL
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