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Old 01-05-2011, 02:21 AM
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If you live in such a crappy neighborhood, I suggest you keep the door locked at all times, not just when you go to bed, and he should have his own key!

But that's another issue. I think most here would agree that keeping you abreast of his whereabouts and expected time home is a simple matter of consideration for the one you love and live with. If I were you, I'd also request that you meet his date.
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