Yes we do live live together we are actually married going on 12 years. So it is not like we are in a new relationship.
I just do not know if I went to far with the locking the door statement. He know the neighborhood we live in is bad ( the guy next door's house got broken into and he got beat over the head with a hammer)
He texted me and said he would be back by 10:30 and if he was going to be later he would text me. SO I reminded him that was fine but I was locking the door when I go to bed and he hasn't texted me back yet.
~ "Kindness in thought leads to wisdom. Kindness in speech leads to eloquence. Kindness in action leads to love."