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Old 01-05-2011, 02:06 AM
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It sounds like you guys live together. If that's so, then it would seem the only decent thing to do would be to let your partner know you're doing okay and/or on the way home. Maybe he feels like you're checking up on him or not giving him his privacy, but I think most couples do communicate what/where/when information when they go out, whether it's a date or not, out of consideration. Your request is not unreasonable. It might be different if you two lived separately.
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